I remember being in college and coming out to my straight friends and family. I’ve had sexual relationships with transgendered people, and I may have even had sex w/ a gay man, I’m not sure if he knows he is or not. I’m a woman who has had sexual and romantic relationships with both men and women. And I’m not talking about on a spectrum or anything like that.
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Oh wait, I could not care less! What I am attracted to in a sexual or romantic partner is my business, not yours. Image via Enter Belldonna Shannon1981: I’m so sorry that you don’t “get” my sexuality. I’m not entirely sure how women feel about all this, but they seem every bit as sexual as men in many of the same ways-it’s probably just that they’re less prone to admit it. The human body is innately sexy and it seems that a majority of guys feel that they vicariously score whenever a fellow dude scores in the sack too. I’m not blind.” And it seems straight-identified men, when they allow themselves to admit it, find men physically attractive too. Whenever I comment on women being hot, straight guy friends will ask me, “Wait… you still find women attractive?” And I respond, “Yeah, I’m gay. …A man can be as straight as an arrow, in terms of consistency of using the term “straight” to identify himself, and still enjoy watching another man sexually. This doesn’t mean that the straight-identified men watching male-female porn are “secretly” bi… straight-identified men… want to identify with -and imagine themselves attracting such beautiful women-or… erotically enjoy looking at him-the way they enjoy looking at the women he’s with. It's all irrelevant when it comes to sexual fantasies.Male porn performers look the way they do because porn is usually made with a male audience in mind… if straight men truly didn’t want to be distracted by seeing a man in a film (either because they don’t find men attractive, or because, uh-oh, they do, and can’t handle their own attraction to guys!), straight men wouldn’t watch any porn with men in it… It doesn't matter how you choose to identify, what your sexual preference is or your gender. Sexual attractions and behaviors are more than just identity
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Well, Downing told Cosmopolitan, Sexual attractions and behaviors are more than just identity, research has shown that some gay men are attracted to or find heterosexual and masculine men more attractive.Īnd for the straight boys, Downing explains it's totally normal for straight guys to be attracted to (or even get it on) with other men. Porn is just a fantasy, and our fantasies do not dictate our sexual orientations or identities.Īccording to the same study, 55 percent of gay men reported they've chosen to watch straight porn in the past six months, which further proves my theory that the kind of porn you're into doesn't translate perfectly into your personal life.īisexual men, the study didn't forget you, don't panic. Bi guys confessed to watching gay porn at a rate of 96 percent and straight porn at a rate of 88.3 percent. On the other hand, I have many straight female friends who dabble in lesbian porn all the time, and get wildly turned on by watching it. Porn is just a fantasy, and our fantasies do not dictate our sexual orientations or identities.įor instance, I'll confess my own porn preference: I'm a surefire lesbian, and I only watch straight porn. I find lesbian porn hilarious, but there is a realness to straight porn (at least through my tainted, gay eyes) that I can get down and dirty with. It doesn't mean you're gay, or straight, or bi or anything. I'm going to send you home with a very important PSA: It's totally OK to watch any kind of porn.